Discussion Not To Defeat Others But To Find Solution

Many of us discuss with our friends about something. We often do not realize the the point of the discussion to find agreement and solution. Unfortunately, we often discuss to defeat others in a forum. That is an embarrassing sitation when you are ashamed in front of others in discussion.

Habit of attacking others because they have different opinion should be thrown away from us. Speaking intonation, diction, and body language should show respect of others. It is possible that our ideas are the best but there will be more addition when we can listen better to other opinions.

Everyone has different ideas and view of points about something. The purpose of discussion to make agreement of the difference. An agreement is win win solution to prevent from future problems. Can you imagine when we force our ideas then the projects or tasks fail? All people will laugh and mock at us. They will happy with our failure because we have made failure before the tasks have been done. The failure is that we do not make agreement.

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We have to learn how to listen others. It is not easy to listen but we can do. Don't let other do the same to us. When we do not listen to others, all people will also ignore us. We are happy when we treat others kindly so others are.