You Are What You Decide

All you do is what you decide in your mind. Your mind is the first action. Your body follow the order of your inner decision in your mind. That is why you should careful to decide. What you think will be manifested in life action.

Adultery is not coincidence. You decide first before you are committed to adulterous deeds. Bad or good actions in your real life is decided first in your deeper soul. If you see a driver who drunk and then gets an accident, it is not coincident. What happens to him is the decision of his mind.

Why should he get drunk before he drive? He may not think about getting accident but his committed and action in his mind to get drunk will cause the worse situation. When you see someone made successful business , look at him how and what he does in his daily life. Do you know if he works over time everyday?

How to decide good things and be real in our life?
First, you should dismiss all bad habit that cause your mind decide things automatically. If you want to stop from drinking alcohol, you should decide first in your inner thinking. When you have decide, you may be tempted to the fun of having drunk. Then you should confirm that you have decide to stop drinking alcohol. In the outer action, you will avoid alcohol and your word will say no to one who offers you a bottle of beer or vodka.

In long time, when you have succeeded from your good life, you will be tempted in your mind. Then you will be asked to take new decision to come back to to stay in healthy life. So this time you should choose again and again what to decide. You can decide what you will do but you can not decide what you want to have. If you want to decide what you want to have you should decide what you should do to have or to achieve your goals or dreams.